Tiger Woods. Jesse James. Jude Law...etc. etc. are amongst the celebrities that have unvoluntarily been brought into the spotlight of celebrity scandal...but who represent a much larger plethora of men who conveniently have not been outed...yet.
It is almost a reality and a most certaintly uncomfortable one at that, that the chances of a man cheating on me are soaringly high. The more this happens, the more and more I see people propose the idea that men were never genetically meant to be monagamous. I truly believe that men are most likely never truly forthcoming about their affairs. If you can get away with it, why not right? But instead of eventually exchanging their Don Juan ways for repentance and commitment-they continue on, and on...and on with multiple women (via Tiger Woods)
What this proposed idea has done has rather brought men consolation in their time of guilt ridden adultery, and instead they find justification for their animalistic affinity to cheating. They claim "sex addiction" for outright impulsive and irrational behaviour, and get psychologically treated and lamented for this 'disease'... As if there were a solution to just being a man??? Instead of taking the harder road of admitting a lack of self control, the easier route seems to uplift other cohorts in supporting this new generation of men who think it is ok to cheat solely on the basis of being genetically normal with no scientificic empirical data to back it up. Its dissapointing to have many male friends who belong to this newly generated brotherhood of condoning and admiring such actions.
I recently watched a movie that said, "Find me the most beautiful girl in the world, and ill find you a guy who is sick of fucking her" (ie. Eric Benet-the 'sex addict' who cheated on Halle Berry)... it sounds absolutely exhausting. To be that cyclical of a vagina dweller without any sense of responsibility or devotion.
Does it truly come down to a genetic variance in this unavoidful dilemma? AND...How much does the term "Once a cheater always a cheater" affect girls who have been repeatedly forgiving of their significant others 'past'?? After all, why tell her you've cheated with three when you only told her about one and shes already forgiven you??
I personally have not come to a conclusion about this issue. If it is in fact true, than i opt out of dating for marriage indefinitely.
please share your thoughts, ideas, objections, i would love to hear.
